Dancing In Public

Dancing In Public


Rev. Dr. Todd Grant Yonkman is the Transitional Senior Minister of First Congregational Church of Stamford.

Scripture: 2 Samuel 6:16 (NRSV)

As the ark of the Lord came into the city of David, Michal daughter of Saul looked out of the window, and saw King David leaping and dancing before the Lord; and she despised him in her heart.


I was raised in a conservative Christian church that forbade dancing, but there were a couple of seniors at the Christian high school I attended who threw underground dance parties. They were fun. They were dark. They were crowded. They were hot and sweaty. Nothing really horrible or dangerous went on because the dancing itself was rebellion enough. Think Footloose but with way more awkward dance moves. And no playing chicken on tractors. That’s crazy.
Dancing with friends is one thing. Dancing in public is another thing altogether. Recently I had an experience that felt like dancing in public. I could feel the eyes on me waiting for a false step like Michal looking down with disapproval at David’s wild dance. It’s a situation in which social disapproval can have real life consequences.
While I was vacationing with my family in Maine, a 26-foot tall sculpture of Marilyn Monroe was installed in the public park across the street from the church I serve. I was given no warning that this would be happening. The image is from the famous scene in “The Seven Year Itch” in which Marilyn stands over a subway vent and her dress blows up showing her panties. And the folks who installed the sculpture positioned it so that Marilyn’s backside faced the church.
Here are some of the various perspectives that the public brought to the situation that we as a congregation had to dance through: 1) We are a group of sexually repressed, easily offended, elderly people who don’t understand art and have had our sense of Victorian propriety scandalized by a direct view of a sculpture showing Marilyn Monroe’s underpants. 2) We are a group of insensitive, backward thinking supporters of patriarchy who should be protesting the statue because of its exploitive depiction of a woman’s body. 3) We are a group of heathen liberals who deserve to be disrespected by Marilyn’s bottom because we fly a rainbow flag on our bell tower. 4) We are the victims of a larger culture war against Christianity and should be standing up against this threat to American values. Things got darker from there: death threats, hate mail. And we didn’t have anything to do with the statue or its placement!
Here’s what I learned about dancing in public: ground yourselves in grace, use some humor, quickly craft a message with your team that articulates your values, take some time to breathe, rehearse your message, make it short, adjust nimbly as new information emerges, and call your Conference Minister for coaching in how to handle a media storm.


Holy God, when our Christian walk calls us to dance in public give us the grace and courage to dance with all our might.     

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Todd Grant Yonkman

The Rev. Dr. Todd Grant Yonkman serves as senior co-pastor of Beneficent Church in Providence, with the Rev. Nicole Grant Yonkman. He is a graduate of the University of Chicago Divinity School and recently received his DMin from Andover Newton ...

July 09, 2018
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